You know you need to disciple your kids and you want to do it, but how do you actually do it?
At Grace Point we want to partner with you in this journey.


  • Set Realistic Expectations

    Be realistic of what your family discipleship will look like. Perhaps that means talking about a Bible story for a few minutes at dinner and trying to find one or two times each week to move conversations toward the gospel. Wherever you are, start there and develop rhythms and habits that work and then build on them to get to where you want to be.

  • See family discipleship as a way of life

    Disciple@HOME are tools to get you started not a strict program to follow. As parents your role is not a program general but as a leader guide. That means that you want to strive to talk with your kids about Christ naturally as much as possible. Look for themes in shows, movies, and music and talk about how they relate to the gospel. Talk about the character of God, especially as you experience them in your own life. We have natural opportunities to talk about the gospel every day—we just have to look for them.

  • Focus on Jesus

    Our goal should be to always point our kids to Jesus. It is easy to fall into the trap of moralism—focusing on our kids’ behavior and wanting them to act right. But that is not God’s heart for them! The way our kids will develop hearts that love Him and want to obey Him is through the gospel transforming them.

  • Feed your own growth

    The best teaching comes from the overflow of what you are learning. If you are looking for the one way to improve the most as your kids’ discipler, this may be it. Spend more time feeding your growth and growing in your understanding of, and joy in, the gospel. Dive into God’s Word more deeply. Read helpful books that will build your faith. Worship in meaningful ways with others and by yourself.

  • Teach by example

    We often focus family discipleship on what we tell our kids— and that certainly matters—but we cannot forget that our kids are learning far more from what they see us do. How is the gospel framing how you live each day in the home, in the community, at work, and beyond? Are God’s love, grace, and mercy working their way out of you? Is the fruit of the spirit evident in increasing measure?

  • Connect them at church

    While God designed parents to be the primary disciplers, He did not intend for them to be the only disciplers! He has given us the church—our local community of faith—to come alongside us, encourage us, and echo what we are teaching in our homes. At Grace Point we strive to instill the Gospel in everything we do. Get involved in the many ways we want to come alongside you to teach your children the truth of the gospel.